If you've lost someone special in your life you may find yourself dreading some dates like birthdays, anniversaries and other special dates like Mother's and Father's Day. For me, in 2022 I had a double whammie so to speak as Pam's birthday fell on Mother's Day. However, I now do some things that help me actually look forward to those special dates. That along with an opening story about a popular song being used to send a message to me from Pam in heaven. It may sound a little far fetched but I think after you hear the story you'll be a believer too.