This evening I took a long walk and ran into a woman walking her dog. One thing let to another and she asked if I was married. No, she was not checking me out but wanted to tell me about some outdoor concert coming up I might want to bring you to. I had to tell her that no, I had a beautiful date for many years but you up and went to heaven about 18 months ago. She said she was very sorry and then said she knew how I felt. I said, oh...I'm so sorry, when did you lose your husband. She said, goodness no I was talking about my father from a few years ago. I said I know that's tough but trust me, if you ever lose your husband it's totally different...to be continued in the podcast.