Episode 10 – Fear & Fulfillment of Public Speaking
In this episode, Dr. Joey “Leviathan” and Bobby “Behemoth” unpack why the mere thought of a microphone makes so many of us sweat. They trace the evolutionary roots of glossophobia, contrast perceived judgment with reality, and share classroom-to-conference stories that shaped their own journeys. Along the way they swap practical tactics—like breathing drills and the one-message rule—and a few cringeworthy anecdotes that prove every speaker is human. By the end, fear turns into a skill set you can actually enjoy.
What’s inside
- The evolutionary roots of glossophobia – why ancient fears of exile still tingle when we step up to a mic.
- Spotlight effect & the inner critic – how we overestimate judgment and overlook support, plus tips to recalibrate perception.
- Toastmasters, classrooms, and structured practice – the role-based method that trains speaking and listening skills.
- Authenticity over polish – making weaknesses endearing, leaning into vulnerability, and avoiding the “sage on the stage” trap.
- Preparation, repetition & breathing – concrete tactics (one-message rule, deep diaphragmatic breaths) that keep nerves in check.
- Desensitizing through real-life reps – from wedding toasts to sermons, gradually raising the stakes builds durable confidence.
- Anecdotes that land harder than a mic drop – real stories of triumph and humiliation, including
- Bobby’s spontaneous 30-minute set that earned his brother a six-figure promotion
- Bobby blanking on lyrics and aborting a song to dodge a racial slur
Why listen
Whether you need to pitch at work, toast at a wedding, or simply hold better conversations, this episode blends psychology, practice frameworks, and laugh-out-loud stories to help you speak up with confidence.
