In a world that often demands our constant attention and care for others, it's easy to overlook the most crucial relationship of all—the one we have with ourselves.
We’re back with a new look and new name, but the healing vibes are still the same! Join our first convo as Healing Myself to discover why it's so important to heal your relationship with yourself first.
WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:
Why is it so important to save/heal yourself first? [3:21]
Don’t let your trauma become who you are
Healing yourself first gives you the opportunity to have healthy relationships with others
You show up differently when you’re healed
Being intentional with the way you talk to yourself and to others
The value of saving yourself—the hard parts [7:06]
How people show up could be a reflection of the demons they’re fighting
Being careful with you who you emulate
The importance of communicating what you need
Realizing that you are enough is they key to a healthy relationship with yourself and others
The moment you stopped trusting yourself
What happened that made you second guess yourself?
The value of saving yourself—the healing [15:13]
Having the mindset to move towards the life you aspire
Setting a vision and relentlessly working make it happen
It’s hard when the villains seem to be winning
The tedious journey towards that realization that you are valuable and worthy
By not communicating what you need in a relationship, you are doing yourself a great disservice
What makes healing harder than you thought [23:17]
Setting boundaries and seeing it through (it’s hard!)
Choosing yourself could feel uncomfortable
You DON’T need to hold yourself to impossible standards
Biggest lessons around healing yourself [31:10]
Choosing yourself needs an every day practice
Your relationship with yourself is the most important one
Healing yourself is a continual process
RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:
The Love Haze: Episode 55, "SOS...Saving OurSelves"
Listen to On & On, song by Erykah Badu
Listen to I’m Doin’ Me, song by Fantasia
Listen to They Just Don’t Know, song by Gyft
TO STAY CONNECTED:
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
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If you'd like either of us to join your next panel or event, please email us at thelovehaze@gmail.com.
