September is Sickle Cell Awareness Month. Today, we hold a gentle conversation about love, intimacy and relationships when sickle cell is part of everyday life—how it shapes energy, plans and the way we care for one another.
We briefly explain what sickle cell disorder is (an inherited blood condition where some red blood cells become rigid and “sickle”-shaped, leading to pain crises, anaemia, fatigue and other complications), then move into the realities of dating and partnership.
In this episode, we explore:
When and how to share your condition in dating—early honesty vs. waiting for trust.
Language you can use: “I want you to know something important about my health, because trust matters to me.”
Stigma & myths:
Is sickle cell contagious? No.
Does it affect fertility or intimacy? Case by case—speak to your consultant.
Is it a weakness? No—living with it takes strength and resilience.
Common feelings for warriors: fear of rejection, feeling like a burden, loss of independence, unfulfilled dreams.
Building healthy partnership (two-way): patience, empathy, clear communication.
Encouragement:
If you’re living with sickle cell—trust yourself; the right person will want to know all of you.
If you’re the partner—listen without judgement, learn about sickle cell, and stand alongside (not overprotect).
Act: Call your local hospital or blood donation centre to donate blood.
Editors note: references to pain and stigma. This conversation is not medical advice—please consult your haematology team or GP for personalised guidance.
