One day you just wake up and realize how much of your energy you have spent on things and people that do not matter. How much energy you spend minding other peoples lives and visioning what it would be like to be them. To some extent you are probably exhausted because you are trying to live in someone else's path. But some conversations you just have to kill. One of the ones I found my energy drained on is having children or being married, I dropped that conversation because if it is my path it will happen if it is not then... C'est la vie