Seriously?
Can we be honest? You and I are a catch. It is a little insane that someone would not want us. But, okay, we are perfect. Lol Okay, no, we aren't, but have you ever been rejected? Has it ever made you feel sad? Have you ever taken it personally?
Rejection is never easy; I did an entire podcast on it. But I am reframing the question of How do you not want me? To you don't deserve me. Also, when some of these people reject including a workplace, it is really because we don't match. It's usually some low vibe person or crappy workplace that doesn't value people. So, in the end, we do better; if you look back at tour history at the people you may have liked that did not like you back, many of them are the same or worse off they were years ago. You, my friend and dear listener (even if in a rut), your glow up usually supersedes there. That is not bragging. It's a simple fact.
I remember when I liked this guy, and I would move heaven and earth for some attention until I found his energy exhausting. He also did the bare minimum but always talked a really big game. I felt rejected because he wasn't that into me. The funny story is when my rose-coloured glasses were removed, it's like, really girl! The guy has nothing but lip service and creative lying experiences out of this world. Why on earth did I try that hard for someone who lacks consistency, trust and honesty. Anyway, when I left the circus, I ended up with a wonderful lawyer (he isn't always), who, if nothing else, doesn't lie and is always consistent. I had to let go to let in someone else. This also applies to work; I think I told y'all about that gross job interview.
Sometimes you have to reframe and revaluate. And if that's too hard as yourself. would I pay for this person to treat me this way? (Cause we all love money.)
