So tired of people playing the victim. Like they attack you and come at you and then they cry, or get angry because you refuse to accept their behaviour. This is the cousin of gaslighting. People like to "tell you the truth" but whose truth is it? We all have a different perception of an event we all saw, because we are conditioned by our previous experiences and responses. When you tell someone something or ask them for advice be very careful because people have their own agenda, they also carry their baggage into your situation.