It’s a TOUGHIE for me to tread carefully here.
“What you bless blesses you back, what you damn damns you back.”
3:00- Where to start: refuse to make man-shamey dating misery your company.
6:00- Why I do not support female empowerment in the form of fake power over men.
8:00- When you seek ways to hate men, you make zero room for love.
9:00- View from Jillian’s court: I was the girl from The Ring being messy in my man-hating well.
13:00- Idealizing, demonizing, and denying you want love from men dehumanizes them.
18:00- You’re a part of it: how your dehumanizing habit absolves you of your relational role.
22:00- Walk that douche rocket out of the cave.
24:00- TWO DATING CASE STUDIES 1) the events happened TO her. 2) the events happened FOR her.
29:00- Let’s get silly and find evidence of good men.
31:00- How to approach the penis-havers with curiosity, not that they'll do you like your ex did.
33:00- Do you REALLY want dating to be easier? Spoiler alert: YA DON’T, HERE’S WHY!
33:45: If it looks like a dingdong and tastes like a dingdong, IT’S NOT BROCCOLI.
35:50: Are you the character police?
39:00- Spoiler alert: what this man hating business is REALLY about.
41:00- How to (like actually) close this wound and lose nothing by letting a man in.
42:30- Your beliefs about men are really reckonings with your own enoughness.
43:00- New messages we are sending ourselves.
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