If you’re hurt and broken you won’t know HOW TO KEEP a good thing even if you’re fortunate to find it. You’re normal of hurt and brokenness and complacency isn’t grounds for growth so all you reciprocate into your relationships are hurt and brokenness.
A healthy person isn’t going to stay or be able to even grow with you in that. YOU have to be willing to fix you and do the work for YOU to be able to be fertile soil to be planted into and have something productive grow: a healthy relationship.
If we really knew what healthy relationships looked like mind games wouldn’t work. Ppl who use ghosting are using abandonment issues to trigger attachments. People who use berating or arguing or destroying behaviors are using toxic issues or styles to condition the other person to normalize that abuse.
Ladies I’ve done a few videos on this before but we’ve got to get out of the mind frame of forecasting the future and wanting to be found and married sooo bad that we are willing to waste time with the wrong person. He’s not going to be different or change if he’s shown you such. Fellas, same thing. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/
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