Some people are wired in a way that whatever they’ve assumed and concluded is their truth and there is nothing you or anyone else can do to convince them otherwise especially when it comes to what they identify your character as . No matter how much you’ve changed or improved to them you’ll always be that which they’ve always believed you to be , because in their eyes whatever the truth is in your reality to them will always remain that which they believe is . Your truth to them is a lie because they’ve never been exposed to your reality hence it’s unreal to them .