When is the last time you held yourself accountable for your emotional state? When have you ever taken stock of how you feel? Why have you not responded to what you need to feel secure? Why are waiting on others to give you something in return for your kindness, your worry, your feelings towards them? They do not and will not reciprocate in the way you want.
Ladies take accountability for your situation. Stop giving out your car, your money, and your time for some big reward at the end of the rainbow.
No one cares for you better than you. It is time for SELF VALIDATION not SELF VICTIMIZATION. There is nothing wrong with saying NO if you feel unappreciated or ridiculed. You need you right now. STOP SAYING YES to other people's needs.
