The day I was flicked off by a driver near my house threw me into an identity crisis. I wanted to be understanding, maybe they were stressed, maybe they had an emergency, maybe, maybe, maybe... next thing I knew I wanted to roll down my window and cream out a litany of really, um.... not nice things. What does it mean to be a nice person? A kind person? A good person? Who am I if I am both awful and wonderful? What does it mean to be scared and brave? In this episode- I explore it all. And recall the life changing lessons my brother Nicholas taught me to move through the tension of shadow and light.