Revelation is key to a meaningful existence. To live a productive life, we must know whose we are, what we are about, where we are going etc. The fact that God placed us in families is proof that identity is important. The Bible records in the Book of Joshua that children would ask their parents why certain traditions exist and their reply was to recap their family history. We must also learn to ask questions.
…to serve as a sign among you. In the future, when your children ask you, ‘What do these stones mean?’ tell them that the flow of the Jordan was cut off before the ark of the covenant of the Lord. When it crossed the Jordan, the waters of the Jordan were cut off. These stones are to be a memorial to the people of Israel forever.” (Joshua 4:6-7)
Jesus asked His disciples, who the people said He was. Their answer, some thought He was just a prophet; others thought John the Baptist; some even said Elijah or even Jeremiah. Whatever they thought of Him would inform how they related to Him. The question to you is "what do you think of Jesus?" From whose eyes are you seeing Him."? How do you relate with Him?
Your response would inform your relations with Him. When you get that Jesus is the Christ, your destiny will be unlocked like it did for Peter, the disciple. Once a reed, unstable but by Christ became a rock
For with you is the fountain of life; in your light we see light.
(Psalms 36:9)
My friend, your identity is found only in Jesus the Christ. Pray, that He will reveal your identity so that your mission on earth can be adequately accomplished.