A candid episode of me admitting harsh truths to myself and how it has been abundantly beneficial to the ones I love the most. I also bring up being a fatty in the dating game to further illustrate that 1. It’s important to be “fit attractive” (by societal terms) especially from a man’s perspective 2. This does NOT make them villains especially when women do the most ABOMINABLE ludicrous offenses to dudes and his kid(s) just to be fucked up 3. Better to understand the game then create opportunities for yourself keeping in mind all parties highest goods of course 4. Finally, growing and transforming is intimidating but is a more efficient long-term game I think. As usual, I’m just attempting to describe what’s going on, as best as I can, how men approach dating & women