I felt it needed to be in caps. Ever been told you're too much, be quiet, calm down...? Well, "well behaved women rarely make history" - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich. People are afraid of rocking the boat because they want to fit in. My dear, if you are wanting to live your life for you, to make changes in the world, to live unapologetically, let that damn boat rock to knock all the judgy people out of it. Those meant to be in your life will be. Don't apologize for your greatness.
