0:29 Intro
- Intro/Opening remarks
- The topic is: Where are we going? Return to the office
2:06 Sponsors
- SPEARity (SPEARity.com)
- Cream City Marketing (creamcitymarketing.com)
4:00 The world opening back up
- In the last week, Brad has had his first face-to-face meetings in quite some time
- Close to a time where in person meetups are no longer frowned upon
- Being in a room for a networking event
- “It was weird for everybody” -B
6:33 How to handle the return to normalcy
- Brad’s story
- Planned to have a meeting with a developer who he hasn't seen in 2+ years
- Meet halfway, go to dinner, talk about work, have a few drinks
- Restaurant was full
- 1 hr meeting turned into 4 hr meeting
- Awkward first connection (shake hand, elbow bump?)
- Be Chill
- Going into a meeting knowing you’ve done it before
- You know how to talk to people
- Just be chill
- “I underthought the logistics, and I overthought the mental aspects” -B
10:50 Things forgotten
- Logistically
- Travel time
- More people are starting to work in the office/travel more so commute times will continue to rise again
- Need extra time for driving, parking, walking
- Add extra time to your calendar
- Buffer time on both ends of the event + more time
- “This new normal will take 3-6 months” -B
- “The new normal is neither new nor normal” -M
- We will never be back to the old “normal”
- Example is travel pre and post 9/11
- Things have changed for the better and will continue to improve
- We are still in a transition, and we are all in different parts of the transition
- “Everyone is figuring out what they are comfortable doing” -M
17:40 Know what you’re gonna do
- Decide if you’re going to shake hands, elbow bump, or just say hi
- Eliminates the awkward moment you meet
- Stick with it, people don’t want to make the first move
- Call/make reservations at restaurants
- More people are dining out and will relieve stress on your side and the restaurant side
- Servers are on their game right now
- Haven’t been busy in a long time
- Looking to help as many people to get more/bigger tips
- Don’t waste their time - ask for more time if you aren’t ready to order
- Let them help others instead of waiting for you to decide
- “The small-talk is going to take a long time right now” -B
- The feeling of talking in person is way different than a Zoom meeting
24:22 The things you forgot
- You are reestablishing relationships
- Expectations and emotions are overlapped
- Prepare mentally for the anxiety and awkwardness
- Pro tip: don’t talk about politics right now (touchy subject for many)
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