In this episode, I talk with Idalia Martinez, an educator and writer who has dedicated her life to helping women and their families through traumatic situations. Idalia shares her story of domestic violence and gives insight into some of its causes and effects. She also shares practical steps toward prevention, healing, stopping generational cycles.
1:10 - Intro to Voicelessness, Anger and Violence
3:30 - Idalia Martinez's Bio
4:30 - How Idalia and I met
5:45 - What’s not in your bio?
6:10 - What is domestic violence?
7:30 - Idalia explains her experience with domestic violence
10:00 - How can domestic violence affect life later
12:00 - Don't forget about the babies
12:30 - "Children speak when the chickens urinate"
14:00 - Importance of a child's voice
16:00 - The Silent Generation
17:00 - What makes a person voiceless?
19:00 - How can a person identify that they are voiceless?
22:30 - Where does the "Angry Bitch" stereotype come from?
24:00 - What is "the monster"?
29:00 - Is there a morality to anger?
29:30 - How do we identify anger?
32:20 - What are practical ways to express anger?
38:40 - What advice can you give to someone who is staying silent to survive?
44:45 - How does violence, anger and voicelessness affect the next generation
46:15 - How can we reframe our narrative around anger, especially regarding the gender norms associated with women
50:00 - Contact info for Idalia
BOOK INFO
Turn Domestic Violence to Victorious Dignity by Idalia Rosa-Martinez
For pre-order ebook or info send email to idalia@irmwritescompany.com
MENDING THE SCARRED INFO
Contact me - MTSLadybug20@gmail.com OR mendingthescarredbypjm.com for ministry and retreat information.
ANGER MANAGEMENT INFO -
Total Life Counseling
www.totallifecounseling.com
Orlando - 407- 248-0030
Anger Management courses $99 8 hr in person course
Orlando Anger Management
407-622-1770
No Insurance - Intern scale counselors available
Celebrate Recovery www.celebraterecovery.com
Pind a local meeting http://celebraterecoverygabc.com Freedom from Anger for Men
Alejandra Proaño
Healing Anger 778-322-3329
email - ale@healinganger.ca https://healinganger.ca
Redeemer Counseling 407-405-7677
New Life Counselors 800-New-Life https://newlife.com
Love UnVeiled
Transforming Women into God’s Image of Beauty 407-385-5796
email - info@loveunveiled.org
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Overcomers aceovercomers.org
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INFO -
Florida Hotline - 1-800-500-1119
Finding Your Voice - TOASTMASTERS INTERNATIONAL
www.toastmasters.org
Find a local club to help you Pind your voice
