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7 WAYS TO COMMUNICATE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR AFRICAN MAN :)
Hey and thank you for visiting this blog. Today's topic is concentrating on how to maintain great communication with your African guy. Communication is very important and can help keep your relationship healthy and happy. Lack of communication can cause a break down in the relationship and the eventual demise of mutual love and affection. Take my personal tips below.
* Avoid Texting your concerns - You want your African partner to take you seriously and conveying important messages via phone or messenger is not really good. He can misinterpret it and this can start an unnecessary argument. You need to look at your man in the eye and talk to him and feel his responses.
* Find the best time to talk - I encourage you to look for a time that your African man is more relaxed. I wouldn't suggest that you try to talk to your guy before he goes to work or once he comes through the door from a stressful day at work. Once he unwinds, then calmly approach him and tell him that you want to talk. Remember to be respectful because nothing turns off a man more than a woman that is nagging or disrespectful.
* Quash all distractions - Don't engage in conversation with your African man when he is watching a game or his favorite show or on the phone. If this message is very important please make sure that you aren't engaged in cooking, cleaning or anything else. You want to sit down and look him in the eyes and clearly convey your message.
* Start off with compliments - Words like "baby I thank you for what you did the other day" or "honey you looked so good today" or "I know you love me and I love you too....then get into the meat of your message.
* Stay on topic - Avoid getting off-topic or beating around the bush. Be very direct and straight to the point. I find African guys like it more when a lady is more upfront with what is bothering her.
Avoid having a long drawn out conversation, speak up and tell him what is on your mind.
* Avoid pointing fingers - Blaming him for something will push him away even though you may be right. Most African men don't tolerate being blamed even though they could be in the wrong. I encourage you to not blame but say something like "baby I am not trying to blame you for anything but this is how I am feeling about Xyz situation".
* Listen to your man - This all goes back to respect. Allow your man to respond without talking or interrupting him. Make sure you listen well to him. Take turns hearing each other out.
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