86 | HunkyDory +Painful Patterns (BOTH) - I don’t want to be Negative Nelly and say “hunkydory” isn’t okay. It is AND! There are still “Painful Patterns” sitting on the bench outside this beautiful garden you built - on the damn bench WAITING on you! Waiting on YOU individually to acknowledge, to express, to develop rituals and routines so THEY don’t have to rear their UGLY head again! Do not ignore them…while playing “HunkyDory” with life and life-force energies and your union! Relationships. Any and all relationships!