Side chick mentality
Over the last 20years, we have witnessed the change of black women. Women went from wanting to be in love, get married, have children and live happily ever after. To now only seek relationship that’s beneficial to them. Men also don’t mind being a side piece. I remember listening to a song by donell Jones call all her love, and in that song he talks about being the side dude. This is a sad behavior that’s over taking our community. People come into relationship with one foot in and one foot out. Loyalty is a thing of the past. We want to be given all the perks that comes with being in a relationship but don’t have time to put up with the stress. So we have That I’m committed as long I’m happy mentality, Which is the side chick mentality. We have to kill the nonsense. Do you know that colored people have an 38% marriage rate. That means one out of 30 people would get married. We not going to even talk about divorce rate. I want my brothers and sisters to know that, this behavior is a thought behavior. We were made to me married.
Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. We must understand that the powers that be want us to be like that because as the children of GOD, we have a requirement on how we conduct ourselves.
