There's a disconnect between what creates attraction and cold approach. Approaching alones breeds confidence eventually, after many approaches, confidence in the fact that you will not die if you do it and confidence in being social. But I deeply believe that how you come across as a person is the most decisive factor that determines weather you get the attraction or not, meaning how confident are you in yourself and what you have to offer. That being said , the reason you need to hold your own is because in spite of how confident you feel , rejection will happen the overwhelming majority of the time. So it is essential you develop real self love which provides thick skin in order to not be concerned with rejection at all. It's the man who can grasp this concept who will go on to have an amazing dating life. Who doesn't want to date a non needy non approval seeking guy who knows he's awesome. Sounds like a fun time. There's elements that make you attractive, approaching is one of them, but what else have you got to offer as a man? Find your worth and combine that with approaching
