One major victimizing tactic repeatedly used in our culture employs references to things which you can do nothing about, or behaviors ad events which are now in history.
By becoming aware of how others will attempt to divert your attention and throw you on the defensive with complaints about past acts you cannot ever change.
We need to admit we were wrong and apologize to forgive ourselves and others or we stay in the victim trap for a lifetime. You can either focus on the negative or you can choose to validate the love you have for human beings and no we all make mistakes.
It is time to work on your boundaries and not to be victimized again. How would that feel and look like to YOU?
For me it has been fabulous. I will help You as no one was there to help me and I learned so very much about how capable I truly am.
Reach out to work with me. I am a Subconscious Specialist and Mentor.
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