Moving is one of the top 3 most stressful events in life with only death of a loved one and divorce being higher. On average a military family moves every 2-3 years which means within 20 years of service that is anywhere between 6-10 times and according to dosomething.org it is 10x more than civilian families. So, how can we connect with our spouses during this stressful time every 2-3 years?