give his amazing book a read
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Story-Bearer-share-faith-friends/dp/1789741556/ref=sr_1_1?crid=26PIUWJL7F3YU&dchild=1&keywords=phil+knox+story+bearer&qid=1618514050&sprefix=phil+knox%2Caps%2C178&sr=8-1
