Ever feel like you’re in a constant tug-of-war with students? Power struggles can drain your energy, disrupt learning, and create tension in your classroom. The good news? They’re completely preventable!
In this episode, behavior consultant Joshua Ruse shares 9 powerful strategies to stop power struggles before they start, helping you take back control, build stronger student relationships, and create a structured, stress-free classroom.
💡 In this episode, you’ll learn:
✅ Why power struggles happen (and how to recognize them early).
✅ 9 teacher-tested strategies to prevent and diffuse conflicts with students.
✅ How to stay calm, confident, and in control—even in tough situations.
✅ The #1 mistake teachers make when dealing with defiant behavior (and what to do instead).
🎧 LISTEN NOW – Hit play and start transforming your classroom today!
🔥 Key Takeaways from This Episode:
🛑 Why Do Power Struggles Happen?
• Students test boundaries when expectations aren’t clear.
• Some students crave control—giving them choices can help.
• Emotional triggers like frustration and embarrassment can cause defiance.
• Your reaction matters! Engaging in a battle of wills only fuels the fire.
🎯 9 Strategies to Stop Power Struggles Before They Start:
1️. Set Clear Expectations – Define rules, model behaviors, and stay consistent.
2️. Build Strong Relationships – Show students you care beyond academics.
3️. Practice Active Listening – Validate their feelings instead of dismissing them.
4️. Offer Choices – Give students a sense of control within structured limits.
5️. Use Positive Reinforcement – Catch students doing the right thing!
6️. Redirect & Reframe – Swap negative phrasing for positive guidance.
7️. Stay Calm & Neutral – Your reaction determines the outcome—don’t match their frustration.
8️. Teach Conflict Resolution – Help students find solutions instead of just enforcing punishments.
9️. Seek Support When Needed – Use behavior plans, data tracking, and team collaboration.
👀 Which strategy will YOU try this week?
✅ Classroom Challenge of the Week!
This week, choose ONE strategy from the episode and test it out in your classroom.
📩 DM @MrJoshuaRuse on Instagram to share your experience—I’d love to hear how it worked for you!
📌 RESOURCES & NEXT STEPS:
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