Watch yourself being angry, jealous insecure
Pause for 5 seconds to accept the other person as they are
Agree their deserved-ness
What plan do you have to leverage their skill?
How do you collaborate?
What matching skill you have?
What leadership skill you will bring out to make that person an ally?
How would you learn?
Have you learnt to increase the love for them a bit?
Can you have this habit for next 90 days?
How many can you admire at a time without feeling demoralized?
What perception do you have?
Asking these questions will help you see how much time do you waste in negativity. Shift those to be a leader