Your behavior isn't the problem.
Just sit in that for a moment.
Maybe you feel relief? Maybe a little bit of confusion? Maybe you're having a flashback to someone telling you it WAS a problem...
Well... I'm telling you it isn't.
Why?
Well, we look at behavior and we think, oh, wow, why do I act this way? Why do why does he act this way? Why does she act this way? Why do I do that?
And we ask ourselves, why am I not doing the things I need to do?
Because the truth is, if there's something that you want, there is a direct line to get it. There's usually a direct line to have what it is you want. There's normally a direct action, but for some reason, we find ourselves taking all these other actions.
For example... and this example may sting a little.
You may want to create a life of freedom and run your own business, but you find yourself continuously attending personal development events instead of just going for it...
And we may think that our behavior is the problem...
But it isn't.
We will always take the path of least resistance.
Just like a river... the water always takes the path of least resistance.
Unless... we change the structure.
For the river, we could divert it down a path that has less resistance than its original direction...
And the same goes for us. We need to create a path of least resistance toward what we truly want to create.
You see... our behavior isn't the problem... it's the structure/river bed that is.
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