As you move towards this better life, at some point the identity says, hey if we were to actually achieve the money or relationships or feeling better or health, if we would actually achieve this, we would have to give up and die to our way of being. Now if you spent 30, 40, 50, 60, 10, 15 years living this way, your identity does not want to give up its way of being. So as soon as you get close to it, it is going to find a way to pull you back. The identity does not wish for you to achieve any of these because if you two were to achieve this, achieve these, it would have to die. So then you realize that this is the problem. So you come down here. So instead of going for what you want, you create a different Desired Reality down here and it's called 'fix myself'.
Who's with me? You create a different one. You say, right, well this thing is the problem. So I'm going to fix myself, yes so then what happens is you go down here, you go and take a course, and as you go down here to fix yourself, you take a course and you work on your feeling of scarcity. You work on this, and you work on this, and you know you spend two days and and someone gets you all pumped up right. Oh yeah of course two days, you do a few coaching sessions, or you know you change your diet, or you get a new something and you feel good for a little bit. True? And then as soon as you feel good for a little bit, you come back to here and you think, right now I'm going to go back to what it is I want to go for, however you actually created an even stronger identity by doing this. So now all of this is stopping you because now your identity is "i need to fix myself". This becomes the identity. I must fix myself. I'm broken. I must improve myself. And this becomes a never-ending search to try to fix yourself.
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