In this searingly honest conversation, Sam talks about growing up with an alcoholic mother, becoming a single mum in her late teens and losing her younger sister to suicide. But this is not a sob story, and Sam is no victim. She is a daughter, sister, mother and a young grandmother who has taken ownership of her life's choices with grace and magnanimity. And perhaps for the very first time, she articulates what it would mean to rediscover her own identity and create the life she has always dreamed of.