Hey there! Have you ever caught yourself automatically agreeing to do something you didn't want to do? or have you ever gotten into a relationship where you were compromising for the other person all the time? How about talking to a misogynistic asshole and you disagreed with everything he said but you just kept nodding your head ignoring your boundaries and just being agreeable? Well this little action is the Art of being fake nice. Ignoring how you feel when you are around these kinds of people instead of leaving the room and saving your peace.
Its not about "I was being considerate, I didn't want the other person to think I didn't like them".
Ask yourself the question who was I hurting them or myself?
When you ignore your own personal boundaries you are ignoring your own needs over you perspective of the other person. Loving yourself enough to stay away from certain energy types is so important to manifesting. When you are around triggers full time you take the spotlight off of yourself and put all your energy towards the thing and then it has control over you.
In this episode the ladies share examples of these situations and give their perspective on Fake Nice!
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