I am not the perfect Mother, neither have I been the perfect daughter. My example of parenting may not have been stellar, but I am willing to learn and grow.. But what do you do when as a woman you are dealing with issues (menopause, divorce, sickness etc) and your child has there own unique set of issues.. I want to be better than what I experienced but at the end of the day.. broken people have babies... Now how do we overcome create a peaceful bond? No lashes allowed tonight!