How you think about yourself and how you talk with yourself is key to how you see the world, and how you interact with others.
Much of the divisive anger we see around us each day can be traced to shame, and lack of self-esteem that has its roots in the hurt experienced by the inner child. The quality of all your relationships is determined by how you feel about yourself. The sad truth is that you will never experience a truly fulfilling, loving relationship unless you learn to love yourself.
Loving yourself is such an important command that we find it eight times in the Bible. The most famous is in a quote from Jesus in Mark 12:30-31: "..Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these."
In the same vein, the Buddha said: “You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”
However, the lines between nurturing self-love and loving the ego often become blurred in our narcissistic culture. We are more concerned about how we are perceived and validated in the outside world than really doing the hard work of growing on a physical, mental, and spiritual level.
So what is the difference between loving the self and loving the ego?
