If you are easily offended, it means, the love of Christ is not yet formed in your heart. On the other hand, if you offend easily, you have not constrained your actions, character and attitude. Without genuine love for Jesus, your actions will be selfishness. Don't be consumed by hatred when others prospers. Be ready to forgive even before any offence come to light. Unforgiving spirit transmits sickness and diseases to your body. Avoid it. Don't let your offences discourage and demotivate someone whose spiritual growth depends on yours. In any dispute and crisis, make sure you are not found wanting. Make effort to call, meet, and visit the offended, to ask for forgiveness and genuinely reconcile.
