The living is the congregation of the righteous while the dead are outcast and separated. The dead are of one congregation and understand their language. No living lives in the grave, for he is separated. There is hope for the dead to return to life in Christ. Backsliding is both conscious and unconscious act to relapse into bad ways. You can't be satisfied with your ways and yet follow Jesus. God cannot fund the lifestyle of a backslider, hence He withdraw support. If you backslide, there are unavoidable storms coming for you. A backslider is a bad influence and not a good associate. To avoid backsliding, you must avoid peer pressure and unnecessary evenings hanging out with friends.