Perspective and mindset are funny things. We all have convictions and beliefs that we feel are strongly rooted and most of us would say near infallible. Yet the reality is you can talk yourself into…or out of, nearly anything. A small shift in perspective or mindset and you’ve got all the tools you need to tell yourself what you WANT to hear.
The problem with the default of human nature, or more specifically, the default society has taught most of us. Is that we focus on the negative. We condition ourselves to the can’ts the reasons why not, and the myriad of bullshit excuses.
We are all perpetrators of this. At some point on out lives we have made decisions based on what we thought we couldn’t do. The shitty thing is we got that from somewhere.
My brother was always better than me at sports. I can never be best.
The fuck is that mindset…I am awful at softball, but I can look at nearly anything mechanical and tell you how it works, t
