Reading Luke 14:7-15 The Parable of the Honored Guest. In ancient times the best seats at a meal were those next to the host. Here, Jesus takes occasion to reprove the guests for striving to sit in [the most important place], and this gives us a lesson of humility. Jesus observed how these lawyers and Pharisees loved the highest seats toward the head of the table. He marked how they chose out the chief rooms, every man, as he came in, got as near the best seat as he could.
Experts in management tell us that most people wear an invisible sign that reads, "Please make me feel important"; if we heed that sign, we can succeed in human relations. Jesus taught two lessons here. First, He spoke to the guests, telling them not to seek places of honor. Service is more important in God's kingdom than status. Second, He told the host not to be exclusive about whom he invites. God opens His kingdom to everyone.
The way to rise high is to begin low. Selfishness brings embarrassment; courtesy is appreciated and rewarded. Jesus used these recognized facts to show spiritual truth: only the person who humbles himself can enter the kingdom of God. It ought to check our high thoughts of ourselves to think how many there are that are more honorable than we, not only in respect of worldly dignities but of personal merits and accomplishments. Instead of being proud that so many give place to us, it should be humbling to us that there are so many whom we must give place to.
How can we humble ourselves? Some people try to give the appearance of humility in order to manipulate others. Others think that humility means putting themselves down. Truly humble people compare themselves only with Christ, realize their sinfulness, and understand their limitations. On the other hand, they also recognize their gifts and strengths and are willing to use them as Christ directs. Humility is not self-degradation; it is a realistic assessment and commitment to serve.
When Jesus advised people not to rush for the best places at a feast. People today are just as eager to raise their social status, whether by being with the right people, dressing for success, or driving the right car. Whom do you try to impress? Rather than aiming for prestige, look for a place where you can serve. If God wants you to serve on a wider scale, He will invite you to take a higher place.
Blessings,
Elder Barbar
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