Episode 89
Join my guest Nicole Majik and me as we talk about judging ourselves, feeling judged by others, and holding back on who we are and what our gifts to this world might be.
“There's no judgment when we look at this to grow and expand. We're stepping outside of the judgment zone because it doesn't exist. Judgment does not exist when you truly know yourself…
I grew up in a very Christian household, I could see energy around people, the colors, their aura, and … I just knew things that people didn't normally know, and I wasn't supposed to talk about those things because it was very embarrassing.
…there were a lot of things that were said to me in ways that, as that young mind, perception wise, I assigned meaning that I was I wasn't good enough, I didn't belong.
{I didn’t have that sense of belonging] and got confused.
How do you act around people that are supposed to be supportive?
I don’t feel safe and supported and in that little body growing up, things compounded because we try to find the validation.
[hearing] you’re not good enough. You should just keep your mouth shut.
It became that I got very stoic.
· I suppressed expressing my feelings
· I felt them very deeply, but I always felt them alone
· Or stuffed them down and I wouldn't express them to the point where suppressing all the negative feelings turned into suppressing all of the positive feelings as well”
Listen as Nicole discusses learning to feel the feelings, honor them, and acknowledge her gifts and how she now helps others do the same.
Nicole Majik is an Empowerment Alchemist, founder of Nicole Majik LLC. With her diverse background in Biology/Chemistry, Metaphysics and Finance, and her experience with Neuro Linguistic Programing and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, she brings a diverse skillset to cover a multitude of areas and circumstances.
She works with leaders, entrepreneurs, and executives who feel stuck in one or more area of life —those who feel discouraged yet know that there is more in this world for them than their current situation has to offer.
We all look for three basic things in life.
1 Safety and security
2 Acceptance
3 Empowerment
And when they are missing, we react to our environment and make choices that do not support us in a loving and healthy manner.
And ultimately, we learn to not trust or like ourselves and we hold on to any means of control we can muster.
Listen to two challenges presented to help you shift your view on your life and yourself that you can implement today.
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