there's always 2 categories: the things we want to do that we actually DO, and the things we want/need to do that we don't... but the only problem is thinking that those 2 categories are good or bad. acceptance of the fact that there will always be things in both categories is acceptance of the balance of life. life moves in phases, and if we accept that, we can work to ride the waves, but also relax when we wait for the next wave.
