Lament is a faithful cry to God. But grumbling is a faithless complaint against God. Or put it this way:
You may be struggling desperately with troubles, distress, fear, and pain. Bring those to God. He will hear you. God says, "Call on me in the day of trouble. I will deliver you and you will glorify me" (Psalm 50:15).
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