Today is our 20th Wedding Anniversary and last Saturday, we said “We STILL do” in the week that we also 28 years of companionship.
It’s a long time, right?! And we are still madly in love and HAPPY!
We are often asked what our secret is. Aside from saying that we are soul mates, I’d have to say that one of the ways we have continued to keep on living and loving is through ensuring that our life is inspired and soul driven.
There have been many pivotal moments but one that definitely stands out is our Fifty by 50 list… a bucket list of sorts, fifty things to do by the age of 50. We wrote it to commemorate Adam’s 40th birthday.
When I think about why it was so impactful I reflect on what I’ve observed in so many couples in the midlife… they become so entrenched in parenting, work, commitments that they lose a sense of their own identity firstly and then also as a couple.
We have found something truly magical about the midlife. It’s when we’ve found the courage to follow our hearts desire and make some big bold moves. In doing so we maintain a commitment to personal and professional development, health and wellbeing, joy and above all else put ourselves and each other first.
In this episode I interview my husband Adam in a candid walk down memory lane to retell the journey of us.