Dealing with emotionally immature and insecure people can do so much damage to you, no matter how far you've come and how much you've healed - do not let anybody into your heart and soul that cannot add to your happiness and peace. Insecure people with egos bring chaos into your safe space and make you doubt who you are and if you're good enough. The minute someone has you comparing yourself to the next person, that person needs to go because now you're questioning your self worth and compromising your mental health. Love yourself so much that you will not settle for less. Acknowledge what you want out of a relationship, out of a partner and out of life (period).