Mother’s Day can be sweet, suuuure—but for some of us, it’s complicated, loaded, or straight-up painful.
In this raw and deeply personal episode, Caitlin opens up about navigating Mother’s Day when you’re estranged from your mom or carry a tangled history of grief, hurt, or resentment. From childhood emotional neglect to hilariously petty revenge gifts, Caitlin shares stories that cut through the Hallmark noise and help us imagine a Mother’s Day that centers YOU—your healing, your boundaries, your joy.
This isn’t a how-to guide. It’s messy. It’s funny. It’s tender. It’s a reclamation of a day that doesn’t get to own you anymore, because you don’t have to perform Mother’s Day, you can reimagine it however you need to.
What You Will Learn:
The quiet trauma of growing up with angry chores and slammed cabinet doors
Why “mother knows best” can be harmful and false
How to reclaim Mother’s Day by honoring chosen family, mom-friends, or yourself
The absolute delight of doing something your mom would lowkey hate
Rituals and symbolic ways to let go, heal, and move forward
What real self-nurturing can look like on your own terms
Links and Resources from this episode:
9 Books to Help You Heal from Childhood Wounds and Estrangement
https://www.caitlinlizfisher.com/blog/9-books-to-help-you-heal
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