The Chofetz Chaim relates that the foundation of healing for all the issues relating to Lashon Hara is to focus on the story of Miriam. He shares a number of reasons why it doesn't appear to be effective, including one losing hope in himself to truly be able to overcome his struggles in Lashon Hara.
Zechor L'Miriam - 1st Perek
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