This is a conversation with Kodili and Arinze.
Here we talk about Life's harshness on young adults, social media pressure, approaching the opposite sex, dealing with rejection, fast fashion, etc.
Enjoy.
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/z2itvQFyMZY
Chapters:
[00:00] Intro
[01:17] Is Life really hard?
[02:39] Life happens regardless of the goals we set.
[04:02] Helicopter parenting
[05:23] Nigerian parents feeling "explaining" is pointless.
[06:28] "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he grows, he will not depart from it"
[08:03] Parents that don't give their children allowance do them a disservice.
[09:29] What actually makes life hard as a young person?
[10:33] Every other part of one's life suffers if the basic needs aren't met yet.
[12:00] opportunities not available to unmarried people.
[16:11] Apart from feeding and survival, what else makes life hard for young people?
[17:35] Social Media make one feel discontent
[18:05] "People are less confident because of social media"
[18:35] The rate at which people are having sex is way less than the time of our parents.
[21:13] The ability to concentrate for long hours is a huge predictor of success
[26:28] Peer pressure is the leading cause of drug usage.
[26:51] Why did our fathers have more sex than us?
[36:30] Life's harshness varies across to gender.
[38:25] Women prefer building a family to having a career.
[41:21] Men slacking on their responsibility to raise men leads to incels.
[42:50] With social media, the pressure is getting more intense.
[44:12] Starting a family is the biggest ambition one can venture into.
[47:45] Lots of research statistics are densely westernised.
[51:13] What do Nigerians use VPN for?
[52:28] The capitalist system is increasingly consumerist.
[58:23] Why are modern people lonely?
[59:42] How can we handle rejection from the opposite sex?
[01:02:20] Do girls prefer the direct approach?
[01:07:12] Tinder is not where you find a wife.
[01:09:45] The Church is a very good place to find a mate.
[01:11:21] The steep after the high
[01:12:12] We are living in strange times.
[01:12:54] Nichole joins in; quick Recap.
[01:13:21] Social Media has created a false image; expectation wise.
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