Listen to two people talk about a challenging situation. First, look at the new phrases below.
NEW PHRASES:
1. It was like pulling teeth: very difficult to do, especially, getting someone to talk.
2. just about: almost
3. What could I do?: There was nothing I could do.
4. Don't beat yourself up.: Don't blame or criticize yourself.
5. I wouldn't do that (if I were you).: You shouldn't do that.
6. Let it go.: Don't worry about it.
7. No problem.: You're welcome.
Now, follow along with the conversation.
a. I saw you talking to the new guy a little while ago. What’s his name?
b. David.
a. What did you two talk about?
b. I was asking him where he was from and what his hobbies were.
a. And???
b. Well…IT WAS LIKE PULLING TEETH. He hardly spoke.
a. You mean he didn’t say anything?
b. Just about. The conversation was going in only one direction with me asking questions and he just saying, “Yes” or “No”.
a. So, what did you do?
b. What did I do? What could I do? I ended the conversation and walked off.
a. Really? I heard he was born and raised overseas, so maybe his English isn’t very good…or maybe, he’s just really shy.
b. I didn’t know that…I wish I had known that before I spoke with him. Now, I feel really bad. He probably thinks that I’m rude or impatient.
a. Don’t beat yourself up about it.
b. I should go back over and talk to him again.
a. I wouldn’t do that if I were you. Just let it go, but the next time you talk to him, just be patient. He probably wants to talk.
b. You’re right. Thanks a lot.
a. No problem.
