— about this episode —
This is a 3-episode series on what I think makes a strong relationship. In part 1, I talk about focusing on myself and my identity (and you should focus on yourself) and why I really do not care what people (including my friends) think about me.
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THE TWEET THAT STARTED IT ALL
@TaariqIsmail
In Arabic, there are 12 levels of friendship. Most of our 'friends' are level 5 or below, and many of us don't have a single level 12 friend.
Here are the levels:
1. Zameel - someone you have a nodding acquaintance with
2. Jalees - someone you’re comfortable sitting with for a period of time
3. Sameer - you have good conversation with them
…this is where things get serious
4. Nadeem - a drinking companion (just tea) that you might call when you’re free
5. Sahib - someone who’s concerned for your wellbeing
… now we’re in the real ranks of friendship
6. Rafeeq - someone you can depend upon. You’d probably go on holiday with them
7. Sadeeq - a true friend, someone who doesn’t befriend you for an ulterior motive
8. Khaleel - an intimate friend, someone whose presence makes you happy
9. Anees - someone with whom you’re really comfortable and familiar
10. Najiyy - a confidant, someone you trust deeply
11. Safiyy - your best friend, someone you’ve chosen over other friends
12. Qareen - someone who’s inseparable from you. You know how they think (and vice versa)
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OTHER PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS
1) AsianBossGirl - episode 117: Doing "The Work" with Jenn Im
2) Terrible, Thanks for Asking - From the Edge
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