Today Mel and T unpack the idea of "Self choice" which in our culture is often referred to as 'selfish', particularly around womanhood. We ponder the idea and flip the perspective on the language of 'selfless'= the ideal/idolised woman and 'selfish'= well, being an 'arsehole!' What if they were reversed? What if the whole context of these labels were questioned? How that has opened new wondering about what we accept as a given and What value we assign to 'self', it's a whole lot of twisting and shifting, come on in...