The word, heal" is a verb which means to make free from injury or disease : to make sound or whole or to cause (an undesirable condition) to be overcome. While it takes time and effort, healing is possible when you take ownership of your life; it is a process that you must intentionally engage with purpose and hope. Shifting your focus from what the toxic person did to what God saved you from, is a powerful stepping stone to healing. After your ashes, there will be peace and joy. Believe.