"Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier." Mother Teresa
Is this how people describe time spent around you? Today I want to talk about your Aura… or the vibe you give off when others interact with you.
No - you are not completely responsible for the way others receive you… but I would argue that it’s important to pay attention to this because… many of us don’t very often!
I am so guilty of being so self-centered in my thought process that I completely ignore how others could be receiving me. I have to pay attention to my RBF…
Or for those of you that are unfamiliar with what I am talking about for some reason… “Resting B***** Face”
Isn’t that horrible? That we can be so consumed on the inside with ourselves that we are completely off-putting on our exterior.
So consumed with our problems, our work, our issues, our family dilemmas, that we sacrifice the meaningfulness of our interaction…
I never want my life to be about that…
I assume that the very fact you are listening to this podcast is evidence that you don’t want this to be your story either.
So let me share a few things I keep in mind entering every interaction these days…
Curious Ear
1 - Obviously having a curious ear would imply you are listening. I love talking to people and feel great afterwards when they genuinely had interest in what I was saying.
Loving Eyes
What are you communicating with your eyes? It’s said that the eyes are a window to the soul… and when people look into my eyes I want them to see love.
Open Heart
I struggle with being defensive for no reason. Approach each conversation in a way that your defenses are down.
A Curious Ear, Loving Eyes, and an Open Heart!
I promise, keeping these things in mind will improve your interactions, and make people leave feeling better and happier.
